The good thing is SHE has stated that when we go that mean la she wants to work on it and she knows that she has to cut off all contact with OM. Until then I think I need to cut off all communication except for what has to be said for my own good and where I feel I am at this point. It's definitely for me, not to punish her
Did you come and say to her that you would take her back? that you forgave her for being with the OM?? I am just curious because our timelines are very similar.. and of course my W has OM in her life.. but they don't live together or anything like that.
M-39 W-41 T-9yrs BD-Dec 2012 “regardless of your choices and the fact that they may have caused me to experience painful emotions, I still love you because I recognize the purpose of our journey.”
