Quote: aren't cases sometimes brought back to court if new evidence is found?
I'm no lawyer, but I believe that would be double jeopardy. The prosecutor has only one chance to present his case, which is why sometimes they refuse to try a case until they have more or new evidence.
Quote: just seems like a waist to me...if you're gonna have an a and risk it all why not go for it..why mess around with emotions and friendship and romance and not the fun stuff? suppose that's part of the problem...to me the physical part of a r is important where it obviosly isn't all that important to h.
Wow ... good insight on what H values as important in an R! ... and the dilemma you face. The same values that help you accept your H is telling the truth of not having a PA are the same ones that cause you to struggle of the SSM aspect.
I wish I had some suggestions here, LL, but this one is definately a "pickle". ... but I not giving up on this ... Something caused your H to change his ways when he came home ... there ought to be a way to repeat that behavior.
... but I not giving up on this ... Something caused your H to change his ways when he came home ... there ought to be a way to repeat that behavior. 
