The only way I know to do that is to cut all communication except for son.
Is that what you want ?
Or what you can handle at this time ??
If it is what you want, then you should read the link to the >>> LRT <<< I posted on Spartan's thread....
If it is all that you can handle, then there are ways to do this, without being an asshat.
Where is that fine line for you ???
Maybe....
Wife, I understand that you want to talk about this right now, and maybe in the future, that can happen. Until then, these talks rarely go well for me, and I would rather not have them.