Help! Patience is tough

[jaytee35]

Anotherstander,

you are right, I am still looking for something to show me signs. I also just recieved another email from her late last night. The email is stating that she will not send me any money to offset the money I put into the checking account to bring the account to zero so that it can be closed. I simply asked her if she wanted to contribute that would be great but if not no worries. Then she stated that I left the bad mattress to her when I moved out and she had to replace it. This is just her assumption for I just took the mattress that she told me to take. I did not purposely leave her the bad one like she is imposing. She is now also upset because for one of her wedding gifts to me she had posed for some nice pictures in which she took back when she filed for divorce. While I was moving out I had saw these pictures and ripped them up. My mindset at that time was that If I cannot have them I sure do not want any other man seeing my wife in provacotive pictures. Which I knew at the time this was wrong by I was very upset at the time.

So she ended the email with telling me not to contact her anymore and that I have proved time and time again that she made the right decision. I think my actions 2 1/2 months ago are now coming back to bite me in the butt!

Any ideas of how I should respond to this situation. I defintitely did not swap the mattress like she says but I did rip up the photos. And I am not worried at all about her contributing to the bank account.