JP, you always have the right to comment. I know there will be things said here and there and it's not like I can go silence. But I know the best way to compete detachment for me is to stop being there for her and let her grow up and do for herself. Problem with being a fixer is its hard, but for me I must and I will. JP, keep commenting on people's posts. You might just find that's what helps you out. Go out and volunteer!!! Trust me, it's what you need. Helping others will help you right now immensely. No excuses, go do it. I have mentored my BIL during this time apart from his sister and it has been so rewarding watching him grow the way he has. I am so proud of him. He said to me the other day that he wished he could help me the way I have helped him. I said, "Winston you have helped me so much. You are inspiring to me. It shows me people can change. Just keep doing what your doing"
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
