Hi Linda, Nice to "meet" you! You read all my thread? Goodness! I sure had my days, didn't I? I have read through your thread as well. The funny thing about moderation is that you pop up in weird places.
Isn't it a stange relationship? As I become a little more detached, it still seems like a strange relationship. Your H is living the fantasy, too...Russian OW. The problem (OK, one of the problems) with that sort of relationship is that it is only "real" from one side. Those girls are desperate and they want out of Russia. It would not surprise me at all to discover she had more than your H on the hook. For her, this is so not about love. I actually think that is similar to what my xSO has done. He is living in a "white picket fence fantasy" and she is financially shoring up her future and gets someone to lean on during her divorce.
Today and right this minute, I do not care.
Snodderly, thank you for your kind words. I don't know about wonderful personality, most of my office affectionately leave me alone before 10:00 a.m. I am doing OK: the sun is finally shining and I am out in it. Sometimes I stay in since the dishes won't do themselves and the cat does not seem to want to learn. Sometimes I am sad for what was lost but I am still excited about the future. This recess time has been good for me.
