I love you more than anything as you know. Part of what we have learned is that we need to be fully open and honest with each other and I don't think we are being that yet. I want you to know that you can tell me anything and I am going to listen and I am still with you, no matter what. But, I can't keep pretending I don't know about tat-boy. You want us to move our family to XYZ city, where he is, and I need you to help me understand what role he plays in this for you. You found him in February, what can you tell me? I think it is important for us to discuss this openly so we can continue to move forward with the progress on us.
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"
