To answer your second question, I believe I would get one of two answers:

1. This is no big deal, just an interesting guy on FB.
2. Yes, I am really feeling strongly about him. Not sure what I am going to do about it but I can't let it go.

I think #1 would be the case, but having naked pictures of him, calling him out by name on FB for the whole world to see (and they did, trust me), looking at pictures over and over while we are on dates and other times, going to the restaraunt he worked at as your one pick, etc. would seem to make that pretty hard to claim.

Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"