You've worn me out, CB. Talk to your W about tat-boy...
lol...
I am finding it quite amazing how quickly you can go from obsessing about tat-boy and then being "ok" with letting it go. I think that really, tat-boy is a deal breaker, for you.
What value will you get by asking your W about tat-boy, REGARDLESS of the answer you get?
What if the answer is, "Nothing is going on, some friend suggested I follow him on FB and he's interesting."?
What if the answer is, "I am just friends with him"?
What if the answer is, "ILYBINILWY and I found my soul mate in tat-boy"?
I'm guessing you have some plan on how to approach your W regarding this, if we were to "approve" your request to talk to W about it. How do you figure you would approach the topic with her?