have you considered all the possibilities and the potential outcomes? What would be different about you sitch, marriage, life if:
1. h tells you no PA and you believe him and he's telling the truth
2. h tells you no PA and you don't believe him and he's telling the truth
3. h tells you no PA and you don't believe him and he's lying
4. h tells you no PA and you believe him and he's lying
Know what I mean?
What would be different based on the above scenarios? Would YOU do something different?
If you'd still STAY no matter what -- why not live with belief in h?
If you'd leave...would you? Can't make h disclose something that didn't happen and if he did disclose something NOW how'd you know it wasn't to just stop the wonder? (So...there are 4 more possibilities starting with...
5. h says yes to PA and you believe him and he's lying
etc)
I'm sure that sounds silly but I just gotta wonder...you may never, ever know..is it changing how you live?
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
