Quote: Just one thing. I think statistically it is unlikely that your H didn't have a PA with OW; if he left your home and M. But, if he didn't, then he's in a no win situation. If he contines to tell you he didn't, you will never believe him totally, as you are really waiting for him to 'confess', and then presumabley you would drop it?
yes it seems he may be in a no win situation if in fact he didn't have a physical r with ow. but of course it's the "statistics" and common beliefs held by society that put him in that position.
If he did infact have a pa with ow well then why the hell not be honest about it?
he has admitted to having an ea with her and knows that I stuggle with accepting there was no pa so why not spill it if there is more?
is he protecting himself or me by not telling all?
NOPE at this point he is hurting himself and the m and I've expressed such thoughts to him and still nada!
so then wich is it?
believe the statistics and wait for full disclosure?
or
believe h and forget the statistics and pre conceived notions of what people do and don't do in extra marital relationships?
of course I don't know what to believe and I hate it.
