so, called h this morning (work): he answered saying "good morning", then we got into our business discussion and it went down hill from there. he didn't like repeating himself, feels I dont pay attention, "sorry you feel that way". I had to say again... YOU are talking AT me, I kept calm the entire convo. Then it turned into me asking about $300 that is missing, he got upset saying he needed it and then hung up on me. About 5 mins later he texted "sorry...other problem in my world".

Normally, I would have called him back after he hung up on me. Normally I would have called him back after he apologized. Normally I would bring it up again.... I guess this time, I won't.

Normally, his yelling at me would have upset me... this time, I feel its "his problem"...oh well. I didn't let it upset me.

Am I doing this right? Is this DB'ing, detaching? "letting go", going dim?

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)