I thought a little about your question last night, but have felt so emotionally drained just recently I couldn't come up with anything constructive to say.
My problem seems to be sort of the opposite of a lot of people's here - no H at home, adamant he will never return, but now all nice and sweet and friendly and even honest...and apologetic
Maybe I could be more constructive next week when I have got over the hump of the legal separation.
Just one thing. I think statistically it is unlikely that your H didn't have a PA with OW; if he left your home and M. But, if he didn't, then he's in a no win situation. If he contines to tell you he didn't, you will never believe him totally, as you are really waiting for him to 'confess', and then presumabley you would drop it?
I think you have to accept that leaving you for OW, even without a PA is pretty serious stuff, and just as inappropriate, and leave it at that.
It's like, I know my H and OW had a PA, but I do not wish to know any further details of the physical aspect, as where will it get me?
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
