Ok...well, W and her girl friend left for their "girls weekend". BTW, theres nothing going on there...W is 110% hetero. Trust me. Anyway, I kept a calm demeanor...helped carry their bags out to the car and loaded them for her. I noticed that W is avoiding eye contact with me, even though she is speaking to me in a semi pleasant voice.

I believe I handled this pretty well. About the only thing I possibly did wrong was I opened my arms for a hug goodbye, and she accepted it...half way anyway. Sorry, I couldnt help myself...its habit. At least I didnt lean in for a kiss right? I also told her to have a safe trip and to have fun.

Thoughts on the last couple posts vets???


Me-45,W-36
M-12 yrs, T-15 years
SS- 16
Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since
EA/PA OM 2003-2004
Reconciled 2004
May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches
W files D June 2013
I am moving out 26 July 2013