Thanks, T. I got some feedback on this board saying it's fine to say that you would prefer to work on the R to the kids, so I was considering it. But the more I looked around, and after speaking to the STBXW, the more I realized that it would be counterproductive on all fronts.
I'm going to go the let's-make-this-as-easy-as-possible route.
M41 W42 M 12 T 15 S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2 BD 1/2/2013 Living as roommates Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13