Well, The D is going to happen. I was preparing her car for her "girls weekend", and in it I found the D paperwork. She did it online yesterday 16 May 2013 at work from some website she paid for. It is for a no contest divorce...which will be entered immediately if I waive my rights to counseling, alimony, ect and consent to the D.

I knew W being more calm and favorable was a front...most likely to avoid conflict before her trip. I am sure if I dont see these today, they will be filed next week after her return.

Now WTF do I do?


Me-45,W-36
M-12 yrs, T-15 years
SS- 16
Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since
EA/PA OM 2003-2004
Reconciled 2004
May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches
W files D June 2013
I am moving out 26 July 2013