Just a quick conversation I had with my W last night... I posted the txt below.. did I respond correctly? do I offer more help? or to talk???? do I express any feelings towards her? even that I miss her? When/how do I express to her that I forgive her for the affair? or should I even bother at this point since the OM is still around in her life... even thou she doesn't seem happy? it's only been 6 months.. I don't want to push her further away.. sorry for the 20 questions.
M: Hey your mail is there now....so nice out.. Btw your yard looks really good..you got that place looking cozy..
W: Thanks sorry I missed ya. The grass is long but ya it looks ok.
M: No worries...Britt is there anyways..you should have put the dogs out..I could have said hi to them.
Happy to hear things are going good for you and that the job it's working out
W: It's not really working out. It's hard heavy work. I am too old to be doing it but I have no choice. I hate my life anymore.
M: Well your not too old...but I do believe it's hard work...no matter what age you are..I probably couldn't do it every day...sorry your going thru this....
You been feeling better lately?
W: No not really hbu? How are things with you? How is work?
M: I don't know..Things have been picking up....starting to have more good days than bad I guess..but still feel a little off. Work is good...still a little slow...but enjoying being home early everyday..feels like I am working half days
Hbu?..what do you feel like?
W: The same, I feel really lonely and scared sometimes. Like u said lost and in a fog.
M: I understand...you have been thru a lot...:(...for what it's worth..I am her if there is anything I can do....
You the strongest woman I know...you can and will figure it out....
W: I suppose and so will you. I am just tired I think. I never have time to sit, always work to be done.
Allergies aren't too bad yet. Starting now with the dandelions.
I am going to bed I am so tired. It was nice talking to u
Maybe we can chat tomorrow again
M: Glad your allergies aren't too bad yet....Hope you have a great sleep...as your dad would say"sleep fast"..haha
Sure I would like that...txt me tomorrow.....:)...good night.
W: Ok lol good nite
M-39 W-41 T-9yrs BD-Dec 2012 “regardless of your choices and the fact that they may have caused me to experience painful emotions, I still love you because I recognize the purpose of our journey.”
and that the job it's working out
