hey livnlearn,

reading nights are scheduled for wednesdays. I also have my book discussion group that meets monthly on wednesday nights and then it snowed this past wednesday so there hasn't yet been a second reading night. H did read thursday night instead and then gave me a little shine over the fact that I didn't read but hey I was tired and I'm allowed to break the schedule right?

as far as movies go...yes h does like to watch movies, infact he suggested renting a movie for tonight. He's not much for discussion afterward though and most of the time I find myself feeling like I should just shut the f up. ah well.

I do want to have a discussion soon with h about how I've been feeling but I don't know how to go about it without putting him in a defensive position.

any suggestions?

LL