BTW, I know some of you have become frustrated with me bringing this same thing up. I am listening to you and have really focused on GAL and being a H no woman would want to leave. And, we have made some progress. I have stopped going on her phone or kindle for a while (her kindle is in our bedroom right now and she is working out, if I wanted to I would have over an hour to read through everything on her FB page). But doing it in front of me again (she was looking at the same pics sitting in the passenger seat on the way home from a wonderful date night dinner a couple weeks ago) feels almost like a cry for help. And if I don't say something to tie it back to our MC and the progress we are making, does it lower her impression of me in her eyes?
Put another way, the 50 bad-boy books she read over the past few months that had pictures that looked like tat-boy on the cover (one actually did have tat-boy on the cover) all have the tag "alpha-male" on their Kindle descriptions. So, am I missing a chance to give her a bit of alpha male by confronting this? i wouldn't do it aggressively, but lovingly and in an appeal to understand, but she HAS TO know that I know?
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"