He said he maybe wanted to go to the movies. I said ok and left it at that.
However, I screwed up tonight, when he went to bed he said "good evening" Who says this? It was so formal -I gave him this look like you are kidding me right. He came back gave me a hug and I said good night.
We are having some neighbors over for HOA business and he asked me to send an email so I did and before he went to bed I wanted to ask him to pick some stuff up at the store tomorrow because I am leaving early in the morning and he has the day off or so i thought, He told me he is working. Remember OW is a coworker. This is where I screwed up ok maybe I screwed up by asking him to pick stuff up but I didn't think it was a big deal. Correct me if I screwed up before this.
I ask him if he just wants to be roommates until a certain date. He said no I said a normal husband would tell his wife he has to work. He said things aren't normal. I said given the situation he should be telling me where he is in advance. I know I know. Big mistake. It didn't lead to a fight. He calmly told me what his plans were for tomorrow. He has a therapist appointment and is looking forward to it.
What do I do now? Back to plan or do I have to do cleanup.
I am sooooooo tired of this, I am so tired of being dismissed or ignored. Him Working really doesn't bother me like it use to. What bothers me is I had plans and he invited people over. Since he did that I assumed he would take care of the house and refreshments, he even said to me earlier. I will have to clean up the house before people get here. It's actually not bad, but now that he has to "work". It will probably fall on me. I don't want to be embarrassed. Am I being too sensitive maybe I am just fed up.
