Accuray...I concur with your statement, however...
I think most people would agree that the injured spouse needs to hear some form of regret and an apology from the offending spouse to be able to heal, and accept the R as whole.
Otherwise, you end up like me in the long run. She never apologized...ever. She sticks to her "I told you it was over, and I moved on" excuse. Thats such a cop out. Especially when the injured spouse is out of contact (or the country like I was) at the time the "break up announcement" is held, and you really have no say or way to work out the problems with the M.
Not only that...but when the A is uncovered, and then they decide to stay in the M....was the offending spouse really over? Or did they just use that as an excuse to play around?
Me-45,W-36 M-12 yrs, T-15 years SS- 16 Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since EA/PA OM 2003-2004 Reconciled 2004 May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches W files D June 2013 I am moving out 26 July 2013
