PM,

60 days is a bit quick. I'm glad I get a year, but I might not think the same way in 3, 6 or 12 months. I think I will but I also thought I'd never be in this position!!!

I think you're just processing everything and all new turns might lead to different feelings. Some temporary and some more growth and permanent. I wouldn't think too much into it, but I think it's ok what you expressed. This tells her more that you are not mad at her wanting a divorce meaning you are supporting her happiness and yours as well. All that is positive.

Focus on improving yourself so that when all is said and done D final or R you are the best you can be. The more you improve yourself the more you feel better, stronger, self confident which can only make you more desirable by your wife. If it doesn't, you'd leave the relationship knowing you've done everything you committed to do and you'll be a better you.

Stay strong.
Trying


Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10
Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13
Reconcile: 07/07/13
Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17
Apartment Life: 04/21/17
PA Confirmed: 05/23/17