I woud invite him to the movies and if he goes with you stop negatively assuming why he is acting the way he is, you can only control you. If you sense something is wrong, ask him "Is everything okay" and accept whatever answer he gives. If he says everything is fine even though you sense he's being "yucky", just say ok and continue on. "Act as if".... hold hands if he's willing to, enjoy the evening together and maybe if he sees you enjoying it his attitude will become better.

If he doesn't go to the movies with you, go on you own and enjoy it just the same.

Best wishes!


me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope