Yep. It's the feeling I have that tells me I'm not totally detached yet. I'm a lot further along then i use to be, but just that switch in emotions inside of me tells me I'm not there yet. I'm gonna get there! And if I have to completely cutoff all talk other than son, then so be it. I like how I feel and where I am with me when I'm not involved. So that's what I need to do
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it