You are totally correct Urworthy. I just left there because I was picking up son. While I was there we discussed sons summer school camp and other things about him. Then she brings up this beach trip a couple of weeks from now with this friend of OM and I can immediately feel my emotions switch. I brought up about not talking about this and she said I brought it up because I trying to let you know what's going on and being honest. I just said hope your surgery goes well, I'll talk to you Sunday. She is having breast augmentation done tomorrow. So I didn't want to get into tonight. But either Sunday or Monday night I plan on saying something like, "As long as there is another man in your life I do not want to talk about anything other than what needs to be discussed about son. I hope you can respect that and please stop" Then I AM GOING TO DO IT!! To me it's the last thing I need to do to completely detach and I think I will feel a whole lot better Thoughts?
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it