You are totally correct Urworthy.
I just left there because I was picking up son. While I was there we discussed sons summer school camp and other things about him.
Then she brings up this beach trip a couple of weeks from now with this friend of OM and I can immediately feel my emotions switch.
I brought up about not talking about this and she said I brought it up because I trying to let you know what's going on and being honest. I just said hope your surgery goes well, I'll talk to you Sunday.
She is having breast augmentation done tomorrow. So I didn't want to get into tonight. But either Sunday or Monday night I plan on saying something like,
"As long as there is another man in your life I do not want to talk about anything other than what needs to be discussed about son. I hope you can respect that and please stop"
Then I AM GOING TO DO IT!!
To me it's the last thing I need to do to completely detach and I think I will feel a whole lot better
Thoughts?


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it