Linda, thanks for the link. It worked this time.
The Landmark coach session was part of the seminar that I was taking. The Landmark Education is not a marriage saving program, it is a program to transform the quality of life, help people to identify the obstacles and realize their goals. I did learn a lot in it, but when I took the first course I already experienced some transformation on my own.

I have one more session with DB coach. I’m not sure when I will schedule it though.
Fortunately, my friends and family do not have animosity towards my H. They are mad at him, but they understand and support me most of the time. They will also understand if I decide to wait it out. I just need to stop complaining, so they don’t feel that they need to rescue me right away. And the rescue to them means ending this limbo.

I can understand your situation. I have a lady who became a friend recently, and she went through a painful D. She is the one who always advises me to move on and file for D myself. She is still very bitter about her D. I’m not sure what you can do in your situation about your family and friends. I would just avoid the subject all together. It is not their business.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state