Today she asks me to go to box to get marriage certificate because she wants to change her passport from maiden name to married name. Says she wish she would have done it 5 years ago an says its a pain. I asked why the rush, going somewhere? She said no, just want to get it changed. Anyways, why does she continue to ask favors of me!!
First of all, why are you engaging in all this conversation ^^^^^? Asking her if she is going somewhere. Detach. Who cares why she wants to change the freakin passport?
C, I'm thinking that you keep saying things to your wife and she's not hearing you. You keep saying the same things over and over and she is hearing blah, blah, blah.
And that is because your actions are not matching your words.
If you want to do something for her, do it. But if you feel you are being used, stop.
Why couldnt she go to the safety deposit box?
C: Sorry, wife, I cant go to the bank today. Have a nice day.
If you dont start setting boundaries and they dont have to be said out loud if you arent ready for that, then you are going to continue to feel frustrated and annoyed and that will lead to anger.
