If she were anyone else, and you behaved in a way you were ashamed of, would you consider a brief apology the right thing to do?
Behave the right way, be the person you want to be, and when you mess up handle it with dignity and character...independent of her.
Is shouldn't matter at all how you think she feels or what you think she wants to hear or how you think she'll feel about whether you apologize or not, or any of the other possible pretzels your brain can turn this into.
This is not about her, it's about you, and who you are.
Does that help?
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
