DBing European Style, part 2

[Fartiltre]

Hi P4L
I am so impressed with you and your detachment. I am not even close to starting this process and you seem to have gotten through it in a moment!
You are doing good but one advice: Next time beat her to the bathroom and just get in there first!

The thing I fear the most in all of this is the upcoming convo with the kids. I think about it all the time and right now I am down to:
- She will have to take responsibility – she is the one that leaves.
- I will take my part for not being a good H but I am not the one leaving.
- I will do everything in the world to hold this talk until a week or two before she moves. This means pressure, documentation and everything. I will do everything for the children – even if this means losing chance of R.

I really do hope that you find a satisfying solution to this one!

Hi Anniekate, thanks for your post. I think you've hit on something there at the end: they have just been thinking about it for so long, they've just GOT to take action. Perhaps for fear of losing their nerve?

I think this is so right. I have been having this thought for some time now!