Well said, PS, and I think all of us have these thoughts (when we're not obssessing about Ws:))
Truth is, guys aren't the only ones getting a D. Women are too,! And the work we're all doing on ourselves (not to mention all the free weight loss that's one of the few upsides of our sitch will make us more attractive to other people.
So, don't worry too much about that now. We're all surprising ourselves with what we're accomplshing and surving now that if/when the time comes, we'll surprise ourselves in the future too.
Don't let the fear of the uncertain future disrupt your DBing efforts. Believe in yourself and know that you still have a lot to offer. Especially your W.
M41 W42 M 12 T 15 S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2 BD 1/2/2013 Living as roommates Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13