I agree- being the third wheel [censored]! Its hard to re-learn how not to be a couple

Its been so long for me I cant even remember who I kissed last (before my wife)

You know youll be seeing her and you are anticipating that your heart will be hurt when you do..........hell- after your last contact with her who wouldnt be?

They had a HUGE head start on us. They have been able to detach. They have had the time to process, to sort.

We got a grenade shoved up our a$$ without the courtesy of a "fire in the hole"

I sat at a sportsbar alone on mothers day nursing a pepsi- I am so freakin uncool and irrelevant to pop culture its going to take me 2 years to be able to speak to other people coherently.

attract a member of the opposite sex..........LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLO

but after 2 hrs of REALLY feeling pathetic I realized that I did it.

I was at about the lowest place emotionally I could be - desperate and pathetic- and I STILL did it

Regardless of what wife does. You will move and start over- and when it will be done by choice (instead of grenade)You will thrive because it will be new

We will be OK my friend

Our W's did all this and WERE STILL HERE! smile


ME 38 W 37
T18 M5
D3
BD 1/7/13
PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing
2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13
W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13
First mediation appt 12/19/13