Thanks Urworthy! I'm movin forward as much as possible. Why isn't there an overnight magic pill for this stuff? I think she finally got the boundaries about not discussing OM and things with me. Do I tell her that I'm not going to help in other ways and make it clear or just not do them? Obviously I don't want to just completely ignore her.
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it