Thanks Urworthy! I'm movin forward as much as possible. Why isn't there an overnight magic pill for this stuff?
I think she finally got the boundaries about not discussing OM and things with me.
Do I tell her that I'm not going to help in other ways and make it clear or just not do them? Obviously I don't want to just completely ignore her.


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it