Linda, thanks for the info. Can you re-post the link, it doesn’t work for some reason. These are very valuable quotes. I’m just not so sure that my H is in MLC. If he is, he is not an angry one, and there is no bad behavior per se. And he doesn’t follow the MLC script sometimes, at least from my point of view. My DB coach said that he shows some signs of MLC, but he is also a WAS.

In any case, I will copy these quotes and read them every day.
I’ve been feeling better in the last couple of days. But, I still have ups and downs a lot. It is amazing how the feelings change throughout the day. It is definitely a rollercoaster… Even with no contact from H. I think that I will get something eventually, since he is at work and there some business matters that need to be addressed periodically until I split from the business.

Interesting thing is that he expects me to forward him his mail. I felt like he was a little bossy when he told me that some mail needs to be dealt with immediately, like his Jury Duty notice. It was a little weird, like he was trying to tell me that I’m not been responsible. Maybe he is getting his clarity back, who knows.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state