"Zero contact or dim as I can be. It is all so confusing when the bottom falls out a little after the 4 months of good."
This is the problem with thinking you're in Piecing too soon. Many will tell you that it's natural to go through several "false starts". The problem is basically because she hasn't owned up to why she did what she did in the first place. She continued to blame shift her "pain" onto external factors when the problem really is within her.
You went through the "honeymoon phase" of Piecing where FEELINGS are high, but then eventually that high goes away. It's the same way that affairs work.
What you need to do is to go back to not thinking about what is going to make her happy. Even vacations. Give her the option to go. If she doesn't, then take the kids on your own. Just REALLY enjoy life right now and do the things you want to do. You don't have to talk to her if you don't want to. Only if you want to. You can wish her 'good morning' and then go on your way.
ONe thing you could try is to tell her that you understand that she's going through things and that you are there if she wants to talk. Then kiss her on the forehead and go on your own merry way. You can share your day with her and if she doesn't respond, it doesn't matter. You have to get to the point where her silence isn't taken with expectations.
If she wants to be a p*ssy b*tch, then that's up to her. You choose to be happy.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
