Accuray...If you would have asked me that question in March 2013, I would have told you I had moved past it. I accepted that...if I loved this woman, and that was her explanation, I had two choices. I could walk away...or accept it and stay.

But as you can see by 6 pages on this thread...once things got screwy, especially after her first announcement of doubt about the M in April, and then her distancing from me and acting suspicious. I snapped right into paranoid behavior. It is pretty obvious that I never accepted her explanation, and only stayed for "love", or fear of being alone, or just wanting her back from OM...because now I am being driven crazy that it is happening all over again.

Me-45,W-36
M-12 yrs, T-15 years
SS- 16
Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since
EA/PA OM 2003-2004
Reconciled 2004
May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches
W files D June 2013
I am moving out 26 July 2013