Bond question for you on detachment. I understand completely what it is. I've read books on it and I know it is a daily practice. Do you have any ideas on how to better handle my situation. I struggle with detaching somedays living under the same roof and we have a vacation home. Do I pretend or fake that there are no issues and continue to plan family vacations like there is no issues and just detach while at vaca house. I mean before she start to withdraw we joined a boat club next to our home. I find it difficult to balance life as a family together while she is disconnected. I mean am I at complete ground zero of DB again. Zero contact or dim as I can be. It is all so confusing when the bottom falls out a little after the 4 months of good.
I am in a much better place. I remember last time I was txting relatives my sitch and getting caught etc. This time my phone still wide open and no W bashing. No signs of her evenly remotely snapping out of fog again.
