PM - Well put on them having to figure it out. It's crazy because I'd swear we're twins right now. Just sent my wife the divorce papers this morning and we had that discussion. Only a matter of weeks before filed. How long before your D would be final? We have a 365 waiting period before finalized so I am hopeful that is a lot more time than most get when trying to let them figure it out.
She's said over and over about how wonderful and supportive I'm being in this divorce and even said she's so luck to be divorcing me (and she pointed out how messed up that sounded). In my simple mind, all these things have been because of what positives we do have in our relationship and they're not one's to be written off so easily. I know it's not easy in her WAW shoes, but that's the simpler solution than risking it all for another shot.
Best of luck.... Trying
Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17