MLC step by step...what's next?

[gunny]

Hi Lilith,
You might want to find out if there is a divorce support group in your area, dont get thrown by the word divorce, I met a number of people who were not yet divorced, it was a great way for me to find friends who were going through some of the same things I was. Your normal circle of friends will be well meaning, but can not begin to understand what you are experiencing unless they have gone through similar things.

I also decided to take some classes at my local community college, which kind of took me out of my comfort zone, and forced me to interact with people(younger by far) whom I would normally not meet in the course of my daily routine. It has been a very positive growth experience.

You might want to start reading some posts on here written by people who have dealt with the mlc and come out on the otherside with an intact marriage, many of them are now in piecing mode, very interesting and hopeful stories. I wish you well,
Doug