Originally Posted By: completelylost
Has anyone else ever experienced this? So one day we are fine not in regards to relationship, just cordial laughing talking normal stuff. Then the next day its like she's upset we had a good day the day before and totally reverts to being a total stranger the next day. It's extremely frustrating.

I think they calls an AOBM, an "alien on break moment", when the alien that has taken over the WAS steps out for coffee and we get to see the person we remember, albeit fleetingly.

This will happen repeatedly but it never lasts, so it's probably best just to enjoy it while it lasts but have no expectations one way or the other.


M41 W42
M 12 T 15
S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2
BD 1/2/2013
Living as roommates
Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13