Hit hard still taking another step forward.

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T,

Just catching up on your last few pages...why didn't you try to take the time off before responding to her that you couldn't? It is clear that it is due to your insecurity about her going away, not about how you felt in April because you aren't feeling that way now (or you weren't before this interaction) yet you didn't even try to get the time off.

You need to understand something...there are serial cheaters who will cheat regardless of who they are with and how happy/unhappy they are and then there are what I have termed "situational cheaters". SC's do not cheat randomly and repeatedly, they cheat because they are so unhappy in their current situation and, for whatever reason, they decide it is the best course of action. If your w is happy, she is most likely not going to cheat. Also, NO AMOUNT OF CONTROLLING ON YOUR PART WILL PREVENT HER FROM CHEATING.