Adivna - Very good points I need to keep in mind during my path forward too.

PM - So hard to wade through all this stuff. My Mrs. has apologized so many times for not speaking up sooner it's making me want to vomit because I'm like if you're sorry and I'm sorry and you're seeing, noticing and commenting on my changes then let's just slow it down!!!!

She's just got it in her mind that the only solution that is best for her is D. She's just now getting back into the emotional side of the loss of our relationship and is in the same position as your wife in that she's convinced herself it's impossible to ever have the feelings a wife would have for her husband.

I guess I'm just going to have to wade in the fire and bide my time.....

Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10
Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13
Reconcile: 07/07/13
Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17
Apartment Life: 04/21/17
PA Confirmed: 05/23/17