You asked on another thread what W said to justify her affair, would that still be helpful or have you moved beyond it?

I really don't think it matters what they say because no explanation is going to make it okay right?

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015