And you are absolutely right that when we don't talk I'm better -- more stable, less sad, etc. Yesterday, that two minute convo "cost" me a few hours of speculation and grief, which I only stopped because I had promised myself a run.
Me: 30 H: 29 M: 2 yrs T: 5 years BD: 12/14/12 Divorce talk begins 1/6/13 I filed: 5/20/13 -- no contact since