One more question.... I can see now that H is feeling more and comfortable with his "single" life and that he doesn't care what me and S21 are up to...he has extended (God knows for how many yrs.) his rental contract with his apartment... Now I have been thinking to make changes in our home ( re-styling, new, new decors, new colors/paintings etc.) also these will make me more busy this summer... but just don't know if I should be the one to shoulder all the cost and expenses for all of these(?) is this a smart thing to do? Any thoughts?
Me50 H53 S22 M23 2007 1st BD May 2011 2nd BD Aug 2011 Moved out(wants space) Feb 2012 came back (wants to work things out) Sept2012 moved out Oct 2012 found out OW but denies March 2013 Admits OW
