Right, NC is for you. Do it as long as you need to. Not to teach him a lesson, but for your own wellbeing. It's not a contest to see who can hold out the longest, with the one who does getting the win. The goal is to get back together, right? Who cares who contacts who first if the goal is reached?
Thanks FY. That is the million dollar question right now and one of the reasons I have not contacted him. We seem to be such different people now, with different goals and visions for the future. And so much water under the bridge.
And I promised I won't get booted from my job, I just used to imposing higher standards on myself than I appear to meeting these days. To think, I gave myself a month and thought I should be recovered!
