DBing European Style, part 2

[Papa4Life]

We had some people come by today to view the house (which has been on the market for more than a year now). The realtor called yesterday late in the afternoon, so it was a mad scramble to clean the place up last night.

After thinking about all the feedback I received, and having gone over it in my head, I decided to suggest to W that we hold off on telling the kids. She didn't respond to my e-mail, but later after cleaning the house from top to bottom, just as I was heading up to bed, she asked, "Aren't we going to talk about the kids?"

I was exhausted after a long day with the girls and errands and the extreme home makeover (lol) so I asked her if we could schedule another time to discuss it.

She might think that my wanting to wait to tell the kids is just another delaying tactic, but that's not true. I don't see the need to have the disaster hanging over their heads if it's going to take another few months. If she needs to tell them to have some kind of certainty, well, that's up to her.

I just keep moving forward, focusing on things I can control, and GAL like crazy!!