I'm not trying to attack her by using this interaction. It's just the most recent thing I can think of that is close.
Yesterday when I said "Can't you understand what I was going through in April" and she said "No". Was she discrediting my feelings? That was the opposite of validation?.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14