Maybe the whole point of jumping isn't the "rush" but the actual peace you feel. No one tells you to expect that. So I am thinking it is a secret.
As for editing, I would always go back and fix my typos but I suppose it was a means of controlling what we did or didn't convey to our fellow DBers. It was decided by the mods that we were not adult enough to have our own conversations or possibly contact each other outside of the DB forum do all editing was stopped. I would at least a year ago if not longer.
As for having your adult kids move in with you: be clear about expectations ie they are not guests but must contribute to the running of the home. Be clear about boundaries and consequences. It is a big decision. Proceed with caution.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory