Wife is having an emotional affair

[25yearsmlc]

don't bother keeping score with her about grades or relationships or life in general. She may want to do that but it cannot be a part of your life.

Scorecards are terrible things IN relationships and end up being weird to have afterwards too...I mean

HER happiness or misery, is NOT an index for yours.

You can win the lottery and it does not "make her poor"

and or she can buy a new car but that does not make your tires flat. You are not on the same race track so she is not competing with you...nor are you with her.

What matters is YOU GOT GREAT GRADES!!!

She's not in the picture...she's a moot point...

It's all about you now.

But she probably will want something from you in the future. Maybe money, or help with a project OR a shoulder to cry on (ironic I know)

and it'll happen in a few months or sooner if she gets lonely for OM, b/c I guess she thought an affair worth ending her marriage for would be more "FUN".... but where'd he go?

oh, he's in college so he went to his parent's house for the summer and she was playing house...

I married in college. I was too young. Yes we made it, but marrying that young just made things harder for us. Keeping our vows was harder than it would have been if we had waited.

She's not ready to be a wife, and will never be a good wife to YOU b/c she is a selfish woman who will take from a giver.

I have no idea what role models she had or if she was spoiled or what.

From your words here, all we KNOW is, she's bad news.

You're not. Learn about who YOU are and what you love to do and

make yourself happy....On your own....

in time you'll find you have a much deeper connection in your next relationship than you ever could

with someone who insists you bring her toothpicks to YOUR martial home-

but hurry up b/c her adultery partner is coming over....