Urworthy, no question I am not totally detached. I've come a long long ways in that department, but I am not completely there. I know it's going to take continued space for that to happen. I don't have expectations of what might happen in this. I've come to learn not to be surprised by anything and that it could go either way and that I need to try my best to keep focus on me. Spartan, I agree respect shouldn't be her saying anything to me about OM. It's why I tried to say I don't care, etc It's why I finally left and didn't want to continue. I guess I should have just addressd it simpler in my texts afterwards. I'm still working on that. The next 4 days will make it a lot easier for space for sure. We shall see
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
